Can opposites Attract?

the truth is, opposites can attract because they don't compete with each other. I've know athletes who would rather their partner was clumsy and overweight because then they don't feel threatened. Your best bet is to attempt to show an interest in her personal life. You can show how protective you are towards her against her father. Country girls almost always have abusive fathers. Show her how protective a black man can be of a white girl who is being bullied by her father.