Query to formerly overweight women?

You have seen what it is to be overweight or obese in a male dominated society where women are measured soley on their external appearance. Now that you've lost the weight, the men who used to belittle or ignore you are suddenly paying attention to you and are sucking up to you for just because you are no longer fat. How do you handle this type of shallow behavior? Do you find yourself still wanting nothing to do with men and are irritated by this attention or have you taken to using these men and losing them? Just curious as to how women deal with the emotional scarring men inflict on them in this society.